Ways of seeing

Reflections on attention, thought, and inner experience

Your body already thinks it’s Monday

Your body already thinks it’s Monday

I met a friend for Sunday brunch recently, and the moment the coming week came up, I watched him close up right in front of me. Nothing had happened yet. We were just talking, and still a kind of layer came down over him, the whole person tightening around a week that...

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The edge, not the strain

The edge, not the strain

After one of my classes a while ago, a student came up to me, properly frustrated. "I want longer hamstrings. I want my hips to open. I want stronger arms. And in your class I push myself, and I get somewhere. Then I read that in yoga I'm not supposed to strive. So...

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Cutting the story off: how an emotion dissolves

Cutting the story off: how an emotion dissolves

This piece comes from Episode 03 of ‘the Inner Practice’ podcast. When the thoughts are in overdrive and the emotions are flooding the body, the first step is calming the nervous system down. There's no chance of clarity about anything while we're all in our head,...

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What the morning practice teaches you

What the morning practice teaches you

This piece comes from Episode 02 of 'the Inner Practice' podcast. Small annoyances can rile us up, and it's often easier to just let them pass. But that's exactly why they're worth paying attention to. The small stuff never asks much of us, which makes it the safest...

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The voice that talks you out of it

The voice that talks you out of it

You can't stop the thoughts, but you can stop believing them. The moment you plan to do something outside your comfort zone, an inner voice shows up to talk you out of it. You know the one: "Not today, you're too tired. You tried this before and nothing came of it....

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